SHE'S NOT THE iSSUE!

Sorry, but when it comes to unfaithful men, the other woman isn’t the problem.

I know this is hard for many women to believe, but it’s true. Too often I’ve seen women go after the other chick while never, ever going after their men. Or if they go after their man, it’s never quite with the same ferocity as they do the other woman. Or better yet, they manage to forgive the man, but not the person the man was cheating with.

The reason why the other woman isn’t the problem is because she had no loyalty to you. She didn’t request that you be her lady. She didn’t propose to you. She didn’t swear in front of God and country to love, honor and cherish you. Nothing. She has no responsibility to you what-so-ever. And that’s what women who are ready to “cut a bitch,” seem to forget.

There only person who needs to be cut (metaphorically speaking of course) is the man you’re involved with. Be it boyfriend, fiancé or husband, he’s the only one responsible for the commitment he broke, – not the chick he was cheating with. It never ceases to amaze me how quickly many women are willing to forgive their lying, cheating man – but some chick they don’t even know…well they are willing to start WWIII with her.

Unless a woman is a close relative or friend there is little reason for your anger to be directed at her. Why risk going to jail just to beat some chick down you barely even know? It’s not worth it, especially when he’s the one who hurt you.

So ladies, save your anger for the person who is responsible for your pain…your cheating man. Please, no stalking of said chick, no catfights, no keying of any cars (well maybe his) – just remember she isn’t your problem…he is.